A PERSONAL NOTE - TUCKER
My family has always been extremely close. I remember when I was young I would sometimes be the only one in the house because my brothers and sister would be off to various parts of the world that I could only dream of at the time. I was always upset when they left but I soon got over it because it meant I had the challenge of sneaking into Cody's room where his Play Station resided. Cody would always ban me from his room which is a warning I obviously ignored. The thing was, no matter how perfectly I pictured everything in my mind he would always find something amiss in his room when he got back and yell at me for being in there. He eventually got a lock on his door which only added to the challenge and excitement of sneaking in. If it was still locked when he got back then how could he possibly think I was in there? In my house there is no one room that is not somehow connected. For example,my room was suppose to be a loft to his which we ended up just connecting to the rest of the upstairs. One day when Chelsea and I were home alone we scavenged two harnesses and a bungee cord from the basement. I had her lower me into his room from my room which is about a 10 foot drop. Psyched on my success I played Crash Bandicoot for the next week and a half and locked the door when he got back. Soon after he called me into his room... "Tucker, were you in my room when I was gone?" "No, how could I be, it was locked." It was then that he pointed to about 10 dirty foot prints traversing down a vertical wall.
I know Cody will make it through this. He always finds a way and this is no different. We will both be shredding the slopes soon and his biggest worry will be how close his little brother is to beating him in GS.
I know Cody will make it through this. He always finds a way and this is no different. We will both be shredding the slopes soon and his biggest worry will be how close his little brother is to beating him in GS.
To Everyone,
You have now idea how much all of your support means to me and the family. Whenever I get a wall post, an e-mail, txt or IM it makes all of this just a little bit easier.
Jesse,
You are the strongest man Iknow. You deal with so much and never ask anything in return. You've always been there for me.
Chelsea,
I feel so much better having you there by his side night and day. I am sure the doctors and nurses there tread extra carefully around you lest they make a mistake and have to deal with your wrath... which can make a grown man cry I might add. I remember when I got hit by a downhill biker. Even though I got up and walked away from it I still had to wrestle you away from the guy who hit me because you had him reduced to tears after screaming at him for 10 minutes. I was the one who got hit but I actually felt bad for him when we left.
Dad,
Keep on keeping on. You've always been there and have always been strong. Without you I may have already fallen apart.
Mom,
Thank you for being my mouth when I wouldn't talk to anyone else in the world.
Thank you for being my mouth when I wouldn't talk to anyone else in the world.
You would save the whole world if you could. I am glad for now you have settled for me. We may not be made for each other but I thank god everyday for bringing you to me. I love you.
And Cody,
Gah! Wake up already! Megs and I need to be humbled in tennis yet again. We are starting to think that we are good enough to beat you and Chels now. I still don't know how you managed to win that game after crushing Chelsea and then sending a backhand right into her back. Probably because we were laughing so hard.
I love you Cody, I'll see you soon.
To all of you Marshalls, hang in there. I remember you all from the GMVS weekend program. You took good care of one another there, and even though your training venues often differed, you kept an eye out for each other. Your courage and strength is admirable, and will help Cody greatly. Like many others, I'm keeping you all in my thoughts. The tight bond of a close family is a wonderful source of healing power. Hang in there Cody. Marti
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Tucker,
Good to hear from you! Cody has always been very proud of you. And, he defiantly let me know that you beat me in a few SL races. To which I replied that it was only a matter of time before you beat him in GS...
Stay strong, Cody has tremendous support and the stuborn will to get through this!
Lots of Love,
Johnny
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Of all of the heart-warming posts and comments I've read over the past few days, this one hits home the most about what family means. To think that little brother could compose it!
I talked to Cody in May -- the interview was for work, but it was fun talking to him -- and he told me anecdotes related to every one of you. How mom got him on skis; how dad made a highlight video on VHS, soundtrack and everything, of the Alpine competition at the 1984 Olympics that Cody would watch over and over again; how big bro and little bro and he would push the limits whether skiing the slopes or the driveway; how he and sis share their wisdom in Europe.
He also said Cheetos are "unbelievably addicting and delicious," if you're thinking of what snack he might enjoy ... when he gets to that point.
I wish Cody strength to get through this, and also continued perseverance to the family. You can see that there are a lot of people behind you. Martin
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Tucker,
That was a really great note. Everyone in your family is being incredibly strong, and I only wish all of you the best. Barb, I miss you. Keep up the positivity.
Love to all,
Mary Kate
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Dear Cody,
We know you will make it through this. You always were a strong and determined little boy... at SES and on the mountain. We know you are the same way today! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family and friends.
Love,
Loren and Joe Pepe
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Taco, I had no idea you were so eloquent. I guess it's true that the silent one's are just deep thinkers. The Marshall clan is so tight and you guys are doing awesome. Can't stop thinking about you codewa. Can't wait to see you up and about cooking pasta with butter, salt and pepper. Weird
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Great story Tucker - With all family and friends keeping the vigil alive it's only a matter of time till Cody is up and at em again. We are appreciating the updates and even the Rutland Herald is staying up with them - YIKES!!
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Great story Tucker - With all family and friends keeping the vigil alive it's only a matter of time till Cody is up and at em again. We are appreciating the updates and even the Rutland Herald is staying up with them - YIKES!!
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Tucker - Great to hear from you! However, if you really want to wake Cody you need to tell him that you are going to kick his A$$ in Slalom next year. I have never seen a Marshall ski slalom like you did this March on upper Spring Fling. You were simply amazing! Cody is going to need those extra pounds if he wants to keep up with you next year. All the best. Dykster
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Tucker:
I have known you since before you were even born... Your mom and I were coaching the Sherburne swim team and she was due at any moment - I was scared to death that she was going to give birth during the meet. She just kept pacing back and forth, back and forth. Thankfully, you were born right after the State Championships - not during! From the get go, you were a man of very few words. But your warm smile and kind eyes let everyone know what a sweet and thoughtful person you were. You were always thinking.
Tucker, your post is one of the most heartfelt pieces I have read. Cody is stronger because of each of you. You each bring a different piece of the puzzle to the table. And it is clear that although you are all fiercely independent, your family remains a tight, coherent group. Your family's commitment to one another is both fierce and uncompromising. Hugs and Kisses to all...
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Tucker - great note to Cody you know he heard you and will come around soon. Everyone is pulling for him around the world. Be strong bubba, and call me if you need anything at all.
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Your long lost [step brother/son]is praying hard for all of you.My wife had a dream she was talking to Cody at a table,he will have a beard,he will be wiser[not a wise ass]but will be a very good man... Of course he will make it.--Sinclair Marshal
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Tucker,
My silent friend. That was awesome. I am happy to hear your story. You keep on keeping on as well. Your family is awesome and the love you have for each other will help you through this. Stay strong.
Karen Mcdonald
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